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Educated by Tara Westover
Publisher: Random House
Release Date: February 20, 2018
Length: 352
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{A Bit of Backstory}
Single Sentence Summary
Born into a survivalist family that had no faith in modern medicine or schools, Tara Westover managed to get herself admitted to college at 17 with absolutely no formal education.
From the Publisher
“Educated is an account of the struggle for self-invention. It is a tale of fierce family loyalty, and of the grief that comes from severing one’s closest ties. With the acute insight that distinguishes all great writers, Westover has crafted a universal coming-of-age story that gets to the heart of what an education is and what it offers: the perspective to see one’s life through new eyes, and the will to change it.”
The Draw
- Child of survivalists who never attended school.
- Quest for education.
- A real life coming-of-age story.
{My Thoughts}
Educated is the perfect example of truth being stranged than fiction. Had this been a novel, I think I’d have found many parts unbelievable, but knowing that Educated was the truth of Tara Westover’s life made it fascinating, horrifying, and hopeful. Together with several brothers and a sister, Westover was born into a Mormon family in rural Idaho. Her family was different than the others in her church. Yes, they attended church services and believed in its teachings, but her survivalist father added his own doctrines to their lives. He believed that schools would only corrupt his children, so Tara, as one of the younger kids, never attended school. He was rabid in his disdain for modern medicine and even in the worst of circumstances refused to consent to medical interventions. With her father’s encouragement, Tara’s mother became a mid-wife and local healer. The family stockpiled food, weapons and other supplies in preparation for the world’s end.
Tara’s father ruled with an iron fist. His beliefs were the only ones permitted. He hated anything touched by government or regulations: insurance, seat-belts, vaccines, schools, hospitals, even well known parts of history such as the Holocaust and the Civil Rights movement. Everyone in his family had a choice, they could leave or they could fall in line. Living such an isolated life, the children, including Tara tended to submit to their father’s way of life. It wasn’t a happy life, but Tara loved her parents and the mountain where she lived. She grew up working alongside her mother preserving food and making tinctures from plants and herbs. When she became a little older, Tara was conscribed to work alongside her brothers in the harsh world of her father’s junkyard. Despite the hardships, Tara manged to carve a little life for herself in a local theater group. Though it was definitely out of character for her father, he loved watching her sing and perform.
As Tara grew older, one of her brothers became physically and mentally abusive. In the close quarters in which they lived, it’s hard to believe her parents were unaware, but help was never forthcoming. Tara’s despair turned inward and her life reached a very low point.
“I began to reason with myself, to doubt whether I had spoken clearly: what had I whispered and what had I screamed? I decided that if I had asked differently, been more calm, he would have stopped. I write this until I believe it, which doesn’t take long because I want to believe it. It’s comforting to think the defect is mine, because it means it is under my power.”
Another brother left the mountain and went to college. With his encouragement, Tara began working through math curriculums, studying English and science, and eventually took the ACT, managing to get accepted to BYU at 17. It might seem like this was the break Tara needed, and in many ways it was, but family ties are strong. So ingrained was the idea that government is bad that for a long time, Tara could not bring herself to apply for a grant. Many times she nearly quit and often returned to her home, but with each class she took and person she met, Tara learned more about other ways to live a life. She began to see her parents in a different light. The accomplishment of achieving an education from BYU, Harvard, and Cambridge was striking in itself, but more so in the clarity it brought Tara about her family. The more she learned the more the Tara saw her family in light of the famous Cervantes quote:
“When life itself seems lunatic, who knows where madness lies?”
I thoroughly enjoyed Educated. Some parts were very difficult to read and others frustrating, but I always wanted to know how Tara would survive her family. Grade: B+
If you liked this book you might also enjoy:
- Daring to Drive by Manal al-Sharif – A Saudi woman’s account of the power of education in helping her to work for women’s rights in a devout Islamic country. (my review)
- The Fact of a Body by Alexandria Marzano-Lesnevich – As the author follows the case of a convicted murderer whose crimes involved children, she grows increasingly aware of abuse in her own childhood. (my review)
Note: I received a copy of this book from the publisher (via NetGalley) in exchange for my honest review.
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Sarah's Book Shelves says
Yay – yet another good report for this one! I’ll be reading it for Nonfiction November if not sooner.
Susie says
I think you’ll like it though in some parts I was frustrated with her and I think you’ll feel the same way.
renee says
This sounds so interesting Susie and also a little sad, I’m adding it to my nonfiction tbr. Great review!!
Susie says
It was a lot sad and tough to read in spots which is the reason I didn’t give it an A, but it’s a book I’m glad I read.
Ann Marie says
This book sounds fascinating but it sounds like parts were difficult to read. Great review!
Susie says
That’s it exactly!
Madeline says
I’m leery of “coming of age” stories but I read the sample — which was intriguing, she didn’t have a birth cert until she was 9? With that and this review, I placed it on hold. (And one of these days, I’ve got to get to “Daring to Drive.” I know it has been one of your favorites and oft-recommended titles.
Susie says
This is really much more than a coming-of-age story. It’s also about surviving and overcoming a lifetime dogma that proved to be utterly false. Hope you enjoy it.
Lory @ Emerald City Book Review says
Wow, this really hit home: “It’s comforting to think the defect is mine, because it means it is under my power.” The cycle of abuse is incredibly effective at getting us to stay within such imprisoning logic. It’s always inspiring to read about someone who manages to get out.
Rachel says
This sounds like a really good memoir. I should keep an eye out for it. Thanks for the thoughts.
susan says
It’s amazing these memoirs where against all odds people survive & go on to Harvard or something, wow! So glad she escaped her warped family’s beliefs which seem quite scary & hindering. It’s a smidgeon like Hillbilly Elegy in just the education she goes on to achieve. Inspiring in that way.
Madeline says
What a riveting read!
I’m finding similar “frustrations” in reviews on this and “The Great Alone” (which I also loved). It is an element of abuse, especially in a remote environments, that victims doubt their truths and often find it impossible to protect themselves. Not to mention constantly returning to their abuser.
I watched a couple of interviews on YouTube with Tara Westover. The comments sections were, needless to say, also fascinating. (CNN vs. MormonStories especially!)
Thank you for changing my mind on this book. It was a 5* read for me!
Katie @ Doing Dewey says
Wow, it seems like everyone is enjoying this one! I’m not entirely sure I’m interested in the topic, but all the good reviews are starting to win me over 🙂